I Don’t Want Rights

 I was wondering today if dominant Alphas understand submissives. For sure an experienced dominant man knows that a submissive male will take pride in being obedient. But I have no idea whether he will understand the motives of the slave, nor his need for being ‘owned.’


I think that slaves understand Alpha men even less. We admire them, we worship them, and we seek approval from them, but I don’t think we understand them beyond that they want to be served and obeyed.

I can remember when I was first introduced to the idea of slavery. At the time I wanted what every young guy wants and the idea of unquestioning obedience to another man seemed somehow strange. But I thought about it more and I began to need it.

A few weeks ago I wrote my ideas down and I called them the ‘five stages of obedience.’

I'm on stage 3 right now, looking for stage 4.

Stage 1

I want:

  • Freedom to masturbate or have sex when horny or bored.
  • A good career, a loving partner.
  • Freedom to explore my sexuality in ways that I choose.

Stage 2

I’m interested in:

  • Chastity
  • Bondage
  • the idea of being a pussy boy, sissy boi, sissy slave
  • Decisions about my life being made by someone else.
  • Serving, kissing and licking another man’s feet.

Stage 3

I desire:

  • Chastity
  • Bondage
  • To be a pussy boy, sissy boi, sissy slave
  • To start a new chapter in my life as an owned slave, increasingly more decisions are being given to an Alpha superior.
  • Orders, humiliation, body modifications.

Stage 4

I need:

  • Chastity
  • Bondage
  • To be a pussy boy, sissy boi, sissy slave
  • To be directed in all situations as a slave who lives for his Master.
  • Growing inclusion in my Master’s world, simultaneous to some type of disconnection from my old life.

Stage 5

Part of identity:

  • Finds security and protection in chastity and bondage.
  • Has forgotten what it feels like to do something on its own initiative without seeking Master’s guidance.
  • Thoughts correspond with Master’s, lack of concern for own self and a strong concern for Master.
  • Major decisions in life are to be made by the Master, such as whether to work and where to work.
  • Has become an extension of its Master and its self-esteem is reliant on Master’s praise and approval.

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