I was wondering today if dominant Alphas understand submissives. For sure an experienced dominant man knows that a submissive male will take pride in being obedient. But I have no idea whether he will understand the motives of the slave, nor his need for being ‘owned.’
I think that slaves understand Alpha men even less. We admire them, we worship them, and we seek approval from them, but I don’t think we understand them beyond that they want to be served and obeyed.
I can remember when I was first introduced to the idea of slavery. At the time I wanted what every young guy wants and the idea of unquestioning obedience to another man seemed somehow strange. But I thought about it more and I began to need it.
A few weeks ago I wrote my ideas down and I called them the ‘five stages of obedience.’
I'm on stage 3 right now, looking for stage 4.
Stage 1
I want:
- Freedom to masturbate or have sex when horny or bored.
- A good career, a loving partner.
- Freedom to explore my sexuality in ways that I choose.
Stage 2
I’m interested in:
- Chastity
- Bondage
- the idea of being a pussy boy, sissy boi, sissy slave
- Decisions about my life being made by someone else.
- Serving, kissing and licking another man’s feet.
Stage 3
I desire:
- Chastity
- Bondage
- To be a pussy boy, sissy boi, sissy slave
- To start a new chapter in my life as an owned slave, increasingly more decisions are being given to an Alpha superior.
- Orders, humiliation, body modifications.
Stage 4
I need:
- Chastity
- Bondage
- To be a pussy boy, sissy boi, sissy slave
- To be directed in all situations as a slave who lives for his Master.
- Growing inclusion in my Master’s world, simultaneous to some type of disconnection from my old life.
Stage 5
Part of identity:
- Finds security and protection in chastity and bondage.
- Has forgotten what it feels like to do something on its own initiative without seeking Master’s guidance.
- Thoughts correspond with Master’s, lack of concern for own self and a strong concern for Master.
- Major decisions in life are to be made by the Master, such as whether to work and where to work.
- Has become an extension of its Master and its self-esteem is reliant on Master’s praise and approval.

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